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Tumblr wont let me reply to this properly, but anon. Dear, dear anon. Did you say ‘post more lesbians’? Because that’s what I heard. So just for you, my love, here’s a spam. Xx.

lgbt-milso asked: Hello! (: I was wondering if you could help promote my new page! I recently started a new page for LGBTQ MilSos(Military Significant Others)!!! My girlfriend, Christina is leaving for Army basic training, and I've gotten into the whole "Army girlfriend" thing! SOOO. If you could help me get the name out there that'd be amazing! There isn't a single blog dedicated to Military LGBTQ significant others out there, so I'm trying to be the first, or at least help support! Please & thank you <3

of course! :) 

Anonymous asked: How do I get started

Get started with what, love?  

If you want to post a picture here, you click on the submit button at the top of the page, click ‘text’ and choose ‘photo’ from the menu and then upload it there.

If you mean with finding a girlfriend, you should try joining groups of stuff you like to try to find people with similar interests to you, or look for an lgbtq group near you. 

If you mean coming out, it’s different for everyone, you just have to do whatever feels comfortable for yourself, at your own pace. I hope any of this has helped, those are usually the most popular questions we get.

wellyoudthink-deactivated201304 asked: Hello! I'm a UK lesbian blogger.. Go figure. I just blog my rants about the most typical things you can come across. I'd appreciate it if you could publish this so I could get some more recognition. I study English at University and it would just mean a lot if I had a larger following base! Thankyou!

hop3l3ssly-r0mantic asked: Hi, I have a new blog called lesbi-closer, I made for lesbians who are in long distance relationship, if they need advice or want to share their stories, I was just wonder if you could share it :-)

Of course. 

And to my followers, sorry I haven’t been posting quite so much lately, i’m seriously busy with college and trying to work. 

Anonymous asked: So, there is this girl that I really like. We have been friends since 5th grade, and she recently came out to me. I want to hookup with her, but I don't know how to initiate it. How would I get her alone & how do I make the move?

Mother of poop,this message freaked me out so bad, i’d just written this big ranty post on my personal personal account and the message icon came up and no one has the link to that blog so i freaked. 

ANYWAY. There are links to advice blogs at the top of this page because I am completely unqualified to give advice to actual humans apart from fire will burn you if you put your hand in it, and chewing gum or chewing on toothpicks will keep your eyes from watering when you’re chopping onions. 

You’ve known her since fifth grade and she trusts you enough to come out to you, so inviting her to do stuff with you shouldn’t really be a problem. Even if you usually only see each other in school, you clearly know each other quite well so asking her round to watch movies or go to the park or whatever it is people do, should not be weird. Cuddle up to her on the sofa, or try holding her hand, see how she responds. Or you could go straight for the smooches but if you dont make it glaringly obvious that you like her it’ll probably be a surprise and she might to too shocked to respond. The most important part is that you’re both comfortable, so ask to do something you both like, which is why movies are so good cause there’s not many people that hate movies. If you want to tell her but you really dont know how, send her a text or a letter. I know it sounds a bit weird cause who writes letters these days, but it does actually work. Writing it out lets you figure out what you want to say and you can change it if something doesnt feel right, and it gives the person reading it more time to figure out their feelings and respond. Enthusiastic consent all the way, and try not to freak out about anything, it never helps. 

iholdyou-aboveitall asked: This is such an adorable blog and I especially enjoy the random photos of brides.

Thank you! Obviously it’s all down to the people who submit and they are all so adorable. Almost all of the pictures of brides come from twicethebrides which is brilliant and I tag all of the wedding pics as WEDDING-Y LESBIANS but I’ve just realised that doesnt show up as a proper tag, so I’ll try fix it now. Thanks :)

Anonymous asked: I don't think I can keep scrolling through this blog... it's so beautiful and full of happy people... and I'm still here without telling anyone my true feelings about my own gender... it hurts soooo bad :(

As in you think you’re trans* or that you like people of the same gender? Or both? Honestly, sometimes I feel the same way, seeing all these happy people.

Cause I think I kinda know how you feel on both counts, at least a little. I consider myself agender/genderqueer and I’m interested in girls. I’ve been trying to talk to people in college about it and they just keep trying to tell me I’m a girl and it’s very emotionally draining. And since I define gay as being attracted to the same gender, it doesn’t seem to fit perfectly. So, feel free to rant at me, I’m feeling more able to answer personal questions now. 

sydney-lesbians asked: hey can you please let your follows know this is a blog for all the sydney lesbians :) thank you!

Of course! http://sydney-lesbians.tumblr.com/ there you go :)

Anonymous asked: oh my god, you and Soph are just adorable together<3

Edit: I answered this and then tumblr ate the answer but not the question..

They are cute. You should go tell them that on the blog they linked to under the picture of themselves.

Anonymous asked: Em and Syd, the couple that just submitted, what did they mean by treatment center?

I have no idea as I don’t know them and there isn’t a blog that they submitted from, but in any case its really none of my business or yours so.

Anonymous asked: I'm completely head over heals for my best friend who happens to be a girl but i have no idea how to tell her how do you think i should tell?

I think first off, you should try to find out if she would be interested in girls too, dropping hints by pointing out girls on telly or in magazines or real life who are good looking and casually telling her and she if she agrees with you. Also if you do that then it might give her some idea that you would be attracted to girls, so when you tell her you have a crush on one, she wont be so surprised. Then you can tell her your crush is her and see how she reacts. 

And do it in a place thats easy to get to, like if you live in the country meet her in town, that way if she takes it badly she can leave and calm down and you can talk again later, or through texts. (I hope that doesnt sound shocking or anything, but having to stay the night in your mates house when they’re upset at you is never good and some people just need space to process things.) 

If you’re still nervous, try writing out what you want to say. That way you have it sort of practised and if you’re still having trouble actually saying it, you can just give it to her as a letter. 

Good luck :)

killerlesbians asked: Can you please promo us? We're a submission blog & we neeeeed more followers so we can actually have submissions. Please help us?

Sure. Submit things followers! 

Anonymous asked: Would you accept pictures of an all-female poly relationship?

Of course!

In fact it’d be great to get some poly relationship pics, because we haven’t had any yet as far as I can remember. So I’d be happy for any poly submissions, as long as there’s at least two girls, but feel free to submit pics of poly relationships with men in them too. :)

Anonymous asked: So I work with this girl,we relate to eachother really well. We text alot and trade shifts so we can work together, and go to movies and dinners. But she has a long-distance boyfriend who she drives to see every weekend.I feel like that takes alot of commitment and she must really like him...But I like her, she knows I'm bisexual and she's told me she has occasional crushes on girls. How do I bring up that I'm interested in dating? Or is that wrong when she has a boyfriend? Please help.

Can you handle the thought if being with her when she has a boyfriend? Or do you want them to split up? Because, if you have no problem with it, I think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you’re cool with her still having a boyfriend, if you are. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with polyamory and if you think it will work for you then go for it. 

You just need to make everything very clear for her. If you think it’ll be difficult to say, why not write it down. It can help you sort out how you feel too, if needs be. As long as everyone’s happy and safe I see no problem with you two dating while she still has a boyfriend.