Anonymous asked: How do I get started

Get started with what, love?  

If you want to post a picture here, you click on the submit button at the top of the page, click ‘text’ and choose ‘photo’ from the menu and then upload it there.

If you mean with finding a girlfriend, you should try joining groups of stuff you like to try to find people with similar interests to you, or look for an lgbtq group near you. 

If you mean coming out, it’s different for everyone, you just have to do whatever feels comfortable for yourself, at your own pace. I hope any of this has helped, those are usually the most popular questions we get.

Anonymous asked: So, there is this girl that I really like. We have been friends since 5th grade, and she recently came out to me. I want to hookup with her, but I don't know how to initiate it. How would I get her alone & how do I make the move?

Mother of poop,this message freaked me out so bad, i’d just written this big ranty post on my personal personal account and the message icon came up and no one has the link to that blog so i freaked. 

ANYWAY. There are links to advice blogs at the top of this page because I am completely unqualified to give advice to actual humans apart from fire will burn you if you put your hand in it, and chewing gum or chewing on toothpicks will keep your eyes from watering when you’re chopping onions. 

You’ve known her since fifth grade and she trusts you enough to come out to you, so inviting her to do stuff with you shouldn’t really be a problem. Even if you usually only see each other in school, you clearly know each other quite well so asking her round to watch movies or go to the park or whatever it is people do, should not be weird. Cuddle up to her on the sofa, or try holding her hand, see how she responds. Or you could go straight for the smooches but if you dont make it glaringly obvious that you like her it’ll probably be a surprise and she might to too shocked to respond. The most important part is that you’re both comfortable, so ask to do something you both like, which is why movies are so good cause there’s not many people that hate movies. If you want to tell her but you really dont know how, send her a text or a letter. I know it sounds a bit weird cause who writes letters these days, but it does actually work. Writing it out lets you figure out what you want to say and you can change it if something doesnt feel right, and it gives the person reading it more time to figure out their feelings and respond. Enthusiastic consent all the way, and try not to freak out about anything, it never helps. 

Anonymous asked: I don't think I can keep scrolling through this blog... it's so beautiful and full of happy people... and I'm still here without telling anyone my true feelings about my own gender... it hurts soooo bad :(

As in you think you’re trans* or that you like people of the same gender? Or both? Honestly, sometimes I feel the same way, seeing all these happy people.

Cause I think I kinda know how you feel on both counts, at least a little. I consider myself agender/genderqueer and I’m interested in girls. I’ve been trying to talk to people in college about it and they just keep trying to tell me I’m a girl and it’s very emotionally draining. And since I define gay as being attracted to the same gender, it doesn’t seem to fit perfectly. So, feel free to rant at me, I’m feeling more able to answer personal questions now. 

Anonymous asked: oh my god, you and Soph are just adorable together<3

Edit: I answered this and then tumblr ate the answer but not the question..

They are cute. You should go tell them that on the blog they linked to under the picture of themselves.

Anonymous asked: Em and Syd, the couple that just submitted, what did they mean by treatment center?

I have no idea as I don’t know them and there isn’t a blog that they submitted from, but in any case its really none of my business or yours so.

Anonymous asked: I'm completely head over heals for my best friend who happens to be a girl but i have no idea how to tell her how do you think i should tell?

I think first off, you should try to find out if she would be interested in girls too, dropping hints by pointing out girls on telly or in magazines or real life who are good looking and casually telling her and she if she agrees with you. Also if you do that then it might give her some idea that you would be attracted to girls, so when you tell her you have a crush on one, she wont be so surprised. Then you can tell her your crush is her and see how she reacts. 

And do it in a place thats easy to get to, like if you live in the country meet her in town, that way if she takes it badly she can leave and calm down and you can talk again later, or through texts. (I hope that doesnt sound shocking or anything, but having to stay the night in your mates house when they’re upset at you is never good and some people just need space to process things.) 

If you’re still nervous, try writing out what you want to say. That way you have it sort of practised and if you’re still having trouble actually saying it, you can just give it to her as a letter. 

Good luck :)

Anonymous asked: Would you accept pictures of an all-female poly relationship?

Of course!

In fact it’d be great to get some poly relationship pics, because we haven’t had any yet as far as I can remember. So I’d be happy for any poly submissions, as long as there’s at least two girls, but feel free to submit pics of poly relationships with men in them too. :)

Anonymous asked: So I work with this girl,we relate to eachother really well. We text alot and trade shifts so we can work together, and go to movies and dinners. But she has a long-distance boyfriend who she drives to see every weekend.I feel like that takes alot of commitment and she must really like him...But I like her, she knows I'm bisexual and she's told me she has occasional crushes on girls. How do I bring up that I'm interested in dating? Or is that wrong when she has a boyfriend? Please help.

Can you handle the thought if being with her when she has a boyfriend? Or do you want them to split up? Because, if you have no problem with it, I think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you’re cool with her still having a boyfriend, if you are. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with polyamory and if you think it will work for you then go for it. 

You just need to make everything very clear for her. If you think it’ll be difficult to say, why not write it down. It can help you sort out how you feel too, if needs be. As long as everyone’s happy and safe I see no problem with you two dating while she still has a boyfriend.

Anonymous asked: hi so i like this girl but i dont know if she's a lesbian and no one knows i'm a lesbian. she's in my friendship group but we arent that close.

Well get to know her a bit better! I mean if you hang out with the same people it should be easy to start talking to her. Once you know her a bit better you’ll be able to tell whether she likes you back, or ask her who she’s interested in. The more you know her the better you’ll be able to gauge her reaction if you do come out to her, and I’d suggest leaving hints to make it that bit easier.

Anonymous asked: Whats the name of the movie from the two latest gifs you posted?

The ones with Kaya Scodelario and Billie Piper? They’re from a show called True Love, I reblogged a link to where you can watch it just before them. :)

Anonymous asked: I know this isn't a question, and I hate to be a bother, but I'm reading this blog and listening to Boats & Birds by Gregory and the Hawk. Perfect song for this wonderful blog. <3

Ahaha, my url used to be stardust-to-remember-you-by because I loved that song so much! It’s a beautiful song, in fact, I think I need to go listen to her music now. I really like Olly Olly Oxen Free too. 

Anonymous asked: how do I submit pictures?

Go here: http://fuckyeahlesbiancouples.tumblr.com/submit click the ‘text post’ bit and it’ll give you a drop down menu where you choose ‘photo’ and then hit ‘choose file’ and pick the photo from your computer.

Anonymous asked: Can you post some of your favorite relationship videos?

… tbh I don’t really have any favourites. But just for you, I went through the blog and tagged all of the videos with (wait for it…) ‘video’. So you can find them easier and maybe choose your own favourite. There’s not actually that many videos submitted and a lot of the older ones have been taken down, it seems.

Unless you mean like fanvids of tv characters. … which I still don’t have many favourites of. (I am going through my watched list on youtube and it’s ridiculous. It’s genuinely all One Direction and how to crochet in the round. This is my life. Oh there’s a brief patch of beatboxing..) I mostly watch gay tv rather than lesbian stuff but I can make a post of both and see if you like any of them. Give me a little while though.

Anonymous asked: how can i put a picture on your tumblr website of me and my girl ?

On the panel on the left of the page it says ‘submit’, click that. Where it says ‘submit a text post’, click on the arrow and choose ‘photo’. Then you hit ‘browse’ and choose the picture from your computer. :)

Anonymous asked: would you post something about my new blog if I gave you my URL? Pleeeeeeease? :)

If it’s lesbian themed or related then yes, but if its a personal blog then no.