Anonymous said: I dont know what to do please help :/ im pretty sure im not straight ive kinda always had that thing for girls just never really admitted it but i dont know if im bi or lesbian because i keep thinking of this same girl so its making it hard for me to work out and i dont want to say anything to my friend or at school because alot of girls have been saying their bi but i dont think they really mean it and may just be doing it for attention and i dont want to be seen that way i dont know what to do
You seem quite stressed about this right now, so just take a moment and breathe. Trust me, it helps. I used to think it was cliched but it works.
Try not to worry about it too much, if you have a crush on a girl, that’s fine. Is she one of the girls thats saying she’s bi? I know its difficult to know either way, I mean I went to a school that had literally no out gay girls. Not one. So when I had a crush I always kept it to myself because I didnt think anyone would understand. But they will. Someone will. And if they dont you always have me, and the rest of Tumblr. If there are girls doing it just for attention then just ignore them. Theres no point wasting energy over them. Because to be honest, if you are bi, and there are a lot of fake people around you claiming to be, the only way you can really deal with it is to wait it out. They’ll change and they’ll accept you even if you dont change.